Generosity is that trait through which man can attain great heights; when dedicated to the good it is indeed most praiseworthy. By means of this quality, one may attain many lofty heights in this world and in the world to come, as it is said, "A man's gifts maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men" (Prov. 18:16). Because of his gifts, kings and nobles will love him and so will every man. There is nothing in the world like generosity for getting the world to love you, and even in the world to come the generous man will receive a good reward because of his gifts.
There are three kinds of generosity : generosity with money, generosity with one's body, and generosity with one's wisdom — and all three were found in Abraham, our father. He was generous with his money, as it is written, "And he planted a tamarisk" (Gen. 21:33). He was generous with his body, for he saved his nephew, Lot, and fought for his sake. He was generous in his wisdom, for he taught everyone the right path until they became converted, as it is written, "And the souls that they had gotten in Haran" (Gen. 12:5).
This quality is most praiseworthy. Through it a man is honored, as it is written, "Many will entreat the favour of the liberal man" (Prov. 19:6). His words are listened to when he reproves people and bids them to return to the service of the Creator. If he needs help, everybody helps him for all dwell in peace with him.
Know, that a gift in the right circumstances, for example, alms to the poor who revere God — is a treasure which is stored up and will never be lost but will remain forever. This was the intent of King Solomon, when he said, "Cast thy bread upon the waters, for thou shalt find it after many days" (Eccl. 11:1). The verse refers literally to generosity : he who sows charity will reap its products, and he who has this quality will prosper. As it is said, "There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth" (Prov. 11:24). It is also written, "He that giveth unto the poor shall not lack" (Prov. 28:27). David said concerning generous men, "He hath given to the needy; his righteousness endureth forever" (Ps. 112:9).
This important quality really means lending to the Creator, Blessed be He, as it is said, "He that is gracious unto the poor lendeth unto the Lord" (Prov. 19:17). The wise man said, "Do kindness to him who deserves it and to him who does not deserve it, but you should be worthy to do kindness." And he said, "He who gives a large gift to one who asks for the gift is only half-generous." The truly generous man is he who gives frequently, whether much or little, before he is asked.
Our Sages, of blessed memory, said further, "The quality of generosity depends upon habit, for a man cannot be called generous unless he gives of his own free will at all times, and at all hours, according to his ability. A man who gives a thousand gold pieces to a worthy person at one time is not as generous as one who gives a thousand gold pieces on a thousand different occasions, each to a worthy cause. For the man who gave the thousand gold pieces at one time had a sudden impulse to be generous, but after that the desire left him. Also in the matter of reward, one cannot compare a man who redeems one captive for a hundred dinars, or gives alms to one poor man in the amount of one hundred dinars (which is completely sufficient for the poor man's needs) with a man who has redeemed ten captives, or has helped to cover the needs of ten poor men, each one receiving ten dinars. Concerning this our Sages said, "Everything must be according to the multitude of the task" (Aboth 3:15); they did not say according to the greatness of the task."
One who shuts his eyes from an opportunity to give charity, it is as though he served idols (Kethuboth 68a). Such a man is called "worthless," "wicked," "merciless," and a "sinner." Worthless, as it is said, "Beware that there be not a base thought in thy heart, saying : 'The seventh year, the year of release, is at hand;' and thine eye be evil against thy needy brother, and thou give him nought" (Deut. 15:9). Merciless as it is written, "But the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel" (Prov. 12:10). And he denies his lineage; he is not of the seed of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, for they were merciful, but he is of the seed of the heathens who are cruel, as it is said, "They are cruel and have no compassion" (Jer. 50:42). And everyone who shows mercy, Heaven has mercy upon him (Shabbath 151b). As it is said, "… and show thee mercy, and have compassion upon thee, and multiply thee" (Deut. 13:18).
He who gives alms to the poor grudgingly loses the merit of the deed, even though he gives much, and it is better that he give only one pruta with a pleasing countenance. And it is well to give before one is asked, and it is well to give secretly, as it is written, "A gift in secret pacifieth anger" (Prov. 21:14). There were people who used to tie the money in a garment and cast it behind them and the poor would come and take, so that he who gave the alms did not know to whom he gave, and he who received the alms did not know from whom he received it, and thus the poor man was not shamed. The general rule in this matter is that as much as possible should be concealed, so that the poor man does not know who is the giver and the giver does not know who is the recipient.
When a man gives alms and the deed is accompanied by kindness for example, he buys something that the poor man needs in order to save him the trouble, or he finds something the poor man needs at a cheap price, at a time when the poor man has no money with which to buy it (and here we should make a point of giving it to the poor man without delay) — in this way does kindness with him. Concerning this, the Prophet said, "Sow to yourselves according to righteousness, reap according to mercy" (Hos. 10:12).
Now, hearken to the importance of generosity and of the men who give freely to the poor, as it is written, "Righteousness will exalt a people" (Prov. 14:34). Come and see, how great is the power of charity, for it is described as being at the right hand of the Holy One, Blessed be He, as it is said, "Thy right hand is full of righteousness" (Ps. 48:11) (Midrash to Prov. 14).
Great is charity — it is this quality for which the Holy One, Blessed be He, will be praised when he brings salvation to Israel, as it is said, "I that speak in victory, mighty to save" (Is. 63:1). Great is charity — it brings honor and life to those who practice it, as it is said "He that followeth after righteousness and mercy, findeth life, prosperity and honour" (Prov. 21:21). [And because one pursues righteousness - he will find righteousness?! Rather, the Holy One, Blessed be He, provides him with money in order to do charity for those who are in need, to do charity for them in order to receive reward from them.] Great is charity — with this quality, the Holy One, Blessed be He, will redeem Israel, as it is said, "Zion shall be redeemed with justice and they that return of her with righteousness" (Is. 1:27). Great is charity — with this quality Abraham, our father, was praised, as it is said, "And he trusted in God and He reckoned it to him for righteousness" (Gen. 15:6), and it is said further, "For I have known him, to the end that he may command his children and his household after him, that they may keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice" (Gen. 18:19). Great is charity — with this quality, David, King of Israel, was praised, as it is said, "And David executed justice and righteousness unto all his people" (II Sam. 8:15). Great is charity — with this quality King Solomon was praised, as it is said. "Blessed be the Lord thy God, who delighted in thee, to set thee on the throne of Israel; because the Lord loved Israel for ever, therefore made He thee king, to do justice and righteousness" (I Kings 10:9). Great is charity — it reaches up to the very Throne of Glory, as it is said, "Righteousness and justice are the foundation of Thy throne" (Ps. 89:15). Great is charity — through it Israel was praised, as it is said, "And it shall be righteousness unto us" (Deut. 6:25). Great is charity — with it, the Holy One, Blessed be He, will in future be praised on the Day of Judgment, as it is said, "But the Lord of hosts is exalted through justice, and God the Holy One, is sanctified through righteousness" (Is. 5:16). Great is charity — it accompanies those who practice it at the hour of their departure from the world, as it is said, "And thy righteousness shall go before thee, the glory of the Lord shall be thy reward" (Is. 58:8). Great is kindness — with it the world was built, as it is said, "The world on mercy is built" (Ps. 89:3). Wherefore a man should cleave to the quality of generosity which brings about all these good things (Mekhilta on Ex. 15:13).
Moreover one should be generous with his money to purchase good deeds, as Rabban Gamliel did when he bought an etrog for a thousand zuz (Sukkah 41b). And one should be generous with one's money to adorn the commandments of the Torah (Shabbath 133b). In embellishing a commandment one should pay up to a third more (Baba Kamma 9b).
A man should be generous with his money to copy and to purchase books and to lend them to one who has none, as it is said, "Wealth and riches are in his house; and his merit endureth for ever" (Ps. 112:3). And a man should be easygoing and not mind if the books are damaged because of their use (Kethuboth 50a). He should also be generous when it comes to his household utensils, and lend them to his neighbors and his friends.
He should be generous in loaning his money to the poor; and if he is able to do so, then he should also loan to the rich when they are in need. He should be generous in his business matters and he should never be petty in small matters. If he is measuring wine or oil, or whatever thing it may be, he ought not to hold it down narrowly to the exact measure.
He should be generous with his energy, going out of his way for people, bearing their yoke and their burden, feeling pain at their anguish, praying for their sake, rejoicing in their joy, visiting the sick, and doing kindness to the dead.
Especially should he be generous with his knowledge of the Torah, teaching every man knowledge and drawing their hearts towards Heaven. This is the greatest type of generosity of all : he who gives of himself to a person in order to lead him to eternal life in the world to come.
Even though generosity is a good quality, a person should be careful not to be a spendthrift in order to attain the desires of his heart, in all manner of food and drink or to give of his wealth to harlots, or to have expensive garments made, or to scatter his money in all sorts of schemes that do not lead to reverence of Heaven. A man who is generous should not scatter his funds for nothing or pursue desires which can only bring him all sorts of evil. But he should be very careful to be liberal with the deserving poor, to dress them, to feed them with the best, as it is written, "All the fat is the Lord's" (Lev. 3:16). His reward shall be that which is good and treasured, which "Neither hath the eye seen, save God, who worketh for him that waiteth for Him" (Is. 64:3).
שַׁעַר הַשִּׁבְעָה־עָשָׂר – שַׁעַר הַנְּדִיבוּת
Chapter Seventeen: ON GENEROSITY
הַנְּדִיבוּת הִיא הַמִּדָּה אֲשֶׁר יַגִּיעַ בָּהּ הָאָדָם לְמַעֲלוֹת גְּדוֹלוֹת. וּכְשֶׁהַנְּדִיבוּת עַל דֶּרֶךְ טוֹבָה – אָז הִיא מְשֻׁבַּחַת מְאוֹד, וּבָהּ יַגִּיעַ אֶל מַעֲלוֹת רַבּוֹת בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה וּבָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, כְּמוֹ שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי יח טז): ״מַתָּן אָדָם יַרְחִיב לוֹ, וְלִפְנֵי גְּדֹלִים יַנְחֶנּוּ״. כִּי בַּעֲבוּר מַתְּנוֹתָיו – יֹאהֲבוּהוּ מְלָכִים וְשָׂרִים וְכָל אָדָם. וְאֵין דָּבָר בָּעוֹלָם הַמֵּבִיא אֶת הָאָדָם לִידֵי אַהֲבַת הָעוֹלָם כְּמוֹ הַנְּדִיבוּת, וְגַם בָּעוֹלָם הַבָּא יַגִּיעַ לוֹ גְּמוּל טוֹב עֲבוּר מַתְּנָתוֹ.
Generosity is that trait through which man can attain great heights; when dedicated to the good it is indeed most praiseworthy. By means of this quality, one may attain many lofty heights in this world and in the world to come, as it is said, "A man's gifts maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men" (Prov. 18:16). Because of his gifts, kings and nobles will love him and so will every man. There is nothing in the world like generosity for getting the world to love you, and even in the world to come the generous man will receive a good reward because of his gifts.
וְיֵשׁ שְׁלוֹשָׁה מִינֵי נְדִיבוּת: הָאֶחָד נָדִיב בְּמָמוֹן, הַשֵּׁנִי נְדִיב בְּגוּף, הַשְּׁלִישִׁי נְדִיב בְּחָכְמָה. וְאֵלּוּ הַשְּׁלוֹשָׁה הָיוּ בְּאַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ: שֶׁהָיָה נָדִיב בְּמָמוֹן, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית כא לג): ״וַיִּטַּע אֶשֶׁל״. נָדִיב בְּגוּפוֹ, שֶׁהִצִּיל לוֹט בֶּן אָחִיו וְנִלְחַם עֲבוּרוֹ. נָדִיב בְּחָכְמָתוֹ, כִּי לִמֵּד לְכָל הָעָם הַדֶּרֶךְ הַיָּשָׁר עַד שֶׁנִּתְגַּיְּרוּ, דִּכְתִיב (שם יב ה): ״וְאֶת הַנֶּפֶשׁ אֲשֶׁר עָשׂוּ בְחָרָן״.
There are three kinds of generosity : generosity with money, generosity with one's body, and generosity with one's wisdom — and all three were found in Abraham, our father. He was generous with his money, as it is written, "And he planted a tamarisk" (Gen. 21:33). He was generous with his body, for he saved his nephew, Lot, and fought for his sake. He was generous in his wisdom, for he taught everyone the right path until they became converted, as it is written, "And the souls that they had gotten in Haran" (Gen. 12:5).
וְזֹאת הַמִּדָּה הִיא מְשֻׁבַּחַת מְאוֹד, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁבָּהּ הָאָדָם מִתְכַּבֵּד, כְּדִכְתִיב (משלי יט ו) ״רַבִּים יְחַלּוּ פְנֵי נָדִיב״, וּדְבָרָיו נִשְׁמָעִים כְּשֶׁהוּא מוֹכִיחַ בְּנֵי הָאָדָם לָשׁוּב לַעֲבוֹדַת הַבּוֹרֵא יִתְבָּרַךְ. אִם הוּא צָרִיךְ לְעֶזְרָה – הַכֹּל יַעַזְרוּהוּ, וְהַכֹּל בְּשָׁלוֹם עִמּוֹ.
This quality is most praiseworthy. Through it a man is honored, as it is written, "Many will entreat the favour of the liberal man" (Prov. 19:6). His words are listened to when he reproves people and bids them to return to the service of the Creator. If he needs help, everybody helps him for all dwell in peace with him.
וְדַע שֶׁהַמַּתָּנָה בְּמָקוֹם שֶׁהִיא רְאוּיָה, כְּגוֹן צְדָקָה לַעֲנִיִּים יִרְאֵי שָׁמַיִם – אוֹתָהּ הַמַּתָּנָה הִיא מַטְמוֹן סָפוּן שֶׁאֵינָהּ נֶאֱבֶדֶת בַּאֲרִיכוּת הַיָּמִים, אַךְ הִיא עוֹמֶדֶת כָּל הַיָּמִים. וְזוֹ הִיא כַּוָּנַת שְׁלֹמֹה הַמֶּלֶךְ עָלָיו הַשָּׁלוֹם, שֶׁאָמַר (קהלת יא א): ״שַׁלַּח לַחְמְךָ עַל פְּנֵי הַמָּיִם, כִּי בְרֹב הַיָּמִים תִּמְצָאֶנּוּ״. וּפְשַׁט הַפָּסוּק דִּבֵּר עַל הַנְּדִיבוּת, כִּי מִי שֶׁזּוֹרֵעַ חֶסֶד – קוֹצֵר תְּבוּאָתוֹ. וּמִי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בּוֹ הַמִּדָּה הַזֹּאת הוּא מִתְעַשֵּׁר, כְּמוֹ שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי יא כד) ״יֵשׁ מְפַזֵּר וְנוֹסָף עוֹד״; עוֹד כְּתִיב (שם כח כז): ״נוֹתֵן לָרָשׁ – אֵין מַחְסוֹר״. וְאָמַר דָּוִד עַל הָאֲנָשִׁים הַנְּדִיבִים (תהלים קיב ט): ״פִּזַּר נָתַן לָאֶבְיוֹנִים – צִדְקָתוֹ עֹמֶדֶת לָעַד״.
Know, that a gift in the right circumstances, for example, alms to the poor who revere God — is a treasure which is stored up and will never be lost but will remain forever. This was the intent of King Solomon, when he said, "Cast thy bread upon the waters, for thou shalt find it after many days" (Eccl. 11:1). The verse refers literally to generosity : he who sows charity will reap its products, and he who has this quality will prosper. As it is said, "There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth" (Prov. 11:24). It is also written, "He that giveth unto the poor shall not lack" (Prov. 28:27). David said concerning generous men, "He hath given to the needy; his righteousness endureth forever" (Ps. 112:9).
וְהַמִּדָּה הַחֲשׁוּבָה הַזֹּאת הַלְוָאָה הִיא אֵצֶל הַבּוֹרֵא יִתְבָּרַךְ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי יט יז): ״מַלְוֵה יְיָ חוֹנֵן דָּל״. וְאָמַר הֶחָכָם: עֲשֵׂה חֶסֶד עִם מִי שֶׁרָאוּי לְכָךְ וְעִם מִי שֶׁאֵינוֹ רָאוּי לְכָךְ. פֵּרוּשׁ: ״עִם מִי שֶׁרָאוּי לְכָךְ״ – יִהְיֶה הַחֶסֶד בִּמְקוֹמוֹ, ״וְעִם מִי שֶׁאֵינוֹ רָאוּי לְכָךְ״ – תִּהְיֶה אַתָּה רָאוּי לַעֲשׂוֹתוֹ. וְאָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים: כָּל מִי שֶׁנּוֹתֵן מַתָּנָה גְּדוֹלָה לְמִי שֶׁשָּׁאַל הַמַּתָּנָה – הוּא חֲצִי נָדִיב. אֲבָל הַנָּדִיב הַשָּׁלֵם הוּא הַנּוֹתֵן תָּדִיר, הֵן רַב אוֹ מְעַט, קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּשְׁאֲלוּ מִמֶּנּוּ.
This important quality really means lending to the Creator, Blessed be He, as it is said, "He that is gracious unto the poor lendeth unto the Lord" (Prov. 19:17). The wise man said, "Do kindness to him who deserves it and to him who does not deserve it, but you should be worthy to do kindness." And he said, "He who gives a large gift to one who asks for the gift is only half-generous." The truly generous man is he who gives frequently, whether much or little, before he is asked.
וְעוֹד אָמַר הֶחָכָם: מִדַּת הַנְּדִיבוּת תְּלוּיָה בַּהֶרְגֵּל. כִּי אֵינוֹ נִקְרָא ״נָדִיב״ עַד שֶׁיְּהֵא רָגִיל בְּכָל עֵת וּבְכָל שָׁעָה לְהִתְנַדֵּב כְּפִי יְכָלְתּוֹ. כִּי אָדָם שֶׁנּוֹתֵן לְמִי שֶׁרָאוּי לִתֵּן אֶלֶף זְהוּבִים בְּבַת אַחַת לְמִי שֶׁרָאוּי – אֵינוֹ נָדִיב כְּמִי שֶׁנּוֹתֵן אֶלֶף זְהוּבִים בְּאֶלֶף פְּעָמִים, כָּל זָהוּב וְזָהוּב לְמִי שֶׁרָאוּי לוֹ. כִּי אוֹתוֹ שֶׁנּוֹתֵן אֶלֶף זְהוּבִים בְּבַת אַחַת – נִתְעוֹרְרָה דַּעְתּוֹ לְהִתְנַדֵּב, וְאַחַר כָּךְ פָּסְקָה מִמֶּנּוּ. וְכֵן לְעִנְיַן הַשָּׂכָר: אֵין שָׂכָר לְמִי שֶׁפָּדָה שָׁבוּי אֶחָד הַיּוֹשֵׁב בַּמִּשְׁמָר עַל דְּבַר חוֹב בְּמֵאָה דִּינָרִים, שֶׁהוּא דֵּי מַחְסוֹרוֹ, כְּמוֹ מִי שֶׁפָּדָה עֲשָׂרָה שְׁבוּיִים, אוֹ הִשְׁלִים לַעֲשָׂרָה עֲנִיִּים חֶסְרוֹנָם בְּמֵאָה דִּינָרִים, כָּל אֶחָד בַּעֲשָׂרָה דִּינָרִים. וְעַל זֶה אָמְרוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ (אבות ג טו): הַכֹּל לְפִי רֹב הַמַּעֲשֶׂה, וְלֹא אָמְרוּ: ״לְפִי גֹּדֶל הַמַּעֲשֶׂה״.
Our Sages, of blessed memory, said further, "The quality of generosity depends upon habit, for a man cannot be called generous unless he gives of his own free will at all times, and at all hours, according to his ability. A man who gives a thousand gold pieces to a worthy person at one time is not as generous as one who gives a thousand gold pieces on a thousand different occasions, each to a worthy cause. For the man who gave the thousand gold pieces at one time had a sudden impulse to be generous, but after that the desire left him. Also in the matter of reward, one cannot compare a man who redeems one captive for a hundred dinars, or gives alms to one poor man in the amount of one hundred dinars (which is completely sufficient for the poor man's needs) with a man who has redeemed ten captives, or has helped to cover the needs of ten poor men, each one receiving ten dinars. Concerning this our Sages said, "Everything must be according to the multitude of the task" (Aboth 3:15); they did not say according to the greatness of the task."
כָּל הַמַּעֲלִים עֵינָיו מִן הַצְּדָקָה – כְּאִלּוּ עוֹבֵד עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה. וְנִקְרָא ״בְּלִיַּעַל״, ״רָשָׁע״, ״אַכְזָרִי״ וְ״חוֹטֵא״. ״בְּלִיַּעַל״, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים טו ט): ״הִשָּׁמֶר לְךָ פֶּן יִהְיֶה דָבָר עִם לְבָבְךָ בְלִיַּעַל לֵאמֹר: קָרְבָה שְׁנַת הַשֶּׁבַע שְׁנַת הַשְּׁמִטָּה. וְרָעָה עֵינְךָ בְּאָחִיךָ הָאֶבְיוֹן, וְלֹא תִתֵּן לוֹ״. ״אַכְזָרִי״, דִּכְתִיב (משלי יב י): ״וְרַחֲמֵי רְשָׁעִים אַכְזָרִי״. וְהוּא מַכְחִישׁ יִחוּסוֹ, שֶׁאֵינוֹ מִזֶּרַע אַבְרָהָם יִצְחָק וְיַעֲקֹב, שֶׁהָיוּ רַחֲמָנִים (יבמות עט א), אֶלָּא מִזֶּרַע גּוֹיִים שֶׁהֵם אַכְזָרִיִּים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ירמיהו נ מב): ״אַכְזָרִי הֵמָּה, וְלֹא יְרַחֵמוּ״. וְכָל הַמְּרַחֵם – מְרַחֲמִים עָלָיו מִן הַשָּׁמַיִם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים יג יח): ״וְנָתַן לְךָ רַחֲמִים וְרִחַמְךָ וְהִרְבֶּךָ״ (שבת קנא ב).
One who shuts his eyes from an opportunity to give charity, it is as though he served idols (Kethuboth 68a). Such a man is called "worthless," "wicked," "merciless," and a "sinner." Worthless, as it is said, "Beware that there be not a base thought in thy heart, saying : 'The seventh year, the year of release, is at hand;' and thine eye be evil against thy needy brother, and thou give him nought" (Deut. 15:9). Merciless as it is written, "But the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel" (Prov. 12:10). And he denies his lineage; he is not of the seed of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, for they were merciful, but he is of the seed of the heathens who are cruel, as it is said, "They are cruel and have no compassion" (Jer. 50:42). And everyone who shows mercy, Heaven has mercy upon him (Shabbath 151b). As it is said, "… and show thee mercy, and have compassion upon thee, and multiply thee" (Deut. 13:18).
וְהַנּוֹתֵן צְדָקָה לָעֲנִיִּים בְּסֵבֶר פָּנִים רָעוֹת – אִבֵּד זְכוּתוֹ, וַאֲפִלּוּ שֶׁנּוֹתֵן הַרְבֵּה; וְעוֹבֵר עַל ״וְלֹא־יֵרַע לְבָבְךָ בְּתִתְּךָ לוֹ״ (דברים טו י). וְטוֹב מִמֶּנּוּ הַנּוֹתֵן פְּרוּטָה בְּסֵבֶר פָּנִים יָפוֹת לֶעָנִי. וְטוֹב שֶׁיִּתֵּן קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּשְׁאַל. וְטוֹב שֶׁיִּתֵּן בַּסֵּתֶר, דִּכְתִיב (משלי כא יד): ״מַתָּן בַּסֵּתֶר יִכְפֶּה אָף״. וְיֵשׁ שֶׁהָיוּ קוֹשְׁרִים מָעוֹת בַּבֶּגֶד וְזוֹרְקִים לַאֲחוֹרֵיהֶם, וּבָאִים עֲנִיִּים וְנוֹטְלִים, וְהַנּוֹתֵן אֵינוֹ יוֹדֵעַ לְמִי נוֹתֵן, וְהַמְּקַבֵּל אֵינוֹ יוֹדֵעַ מִמִּי קִבֵּל וְאֵינוֹ מִתְבַּיֵּשׁ (כתובות סז ב). כְּלָלוֹ שֶׁל דָּבָר: כָּל מָה שֶׁיָּכוֹל לְהַסְתִּיר, שֶׁלֹּא יֵדַע הֶעָנִי מִי הוּא הַנּוֹתֵן, וְשֶׁלֹּא יֵדַע הַנּוֹתֵן מִי הוּא הַמְקַבֵּל – יֵשׁ לוֹ לְהַסְתִּיר.
He who gives alms to the poor grudgingly loses the merit of the deed, even though he gives much, and it is better that he give only one pruta with a pleasing countenance. And it is well to give before one is asked, and it is well to give secretly, as it is written, "A gift in secret pacifieth anger" (Prov. 21:14). There were people who used to tie the money in a garment and cast it behind them and the poor would come and take, so that he who gave the alms did not know to whom he gave, and he who received the alms did not know from whom he received it, and thus the poor man was not shamed. The general rule in this matter is that as much as possible should be concealed, so that the poor man does not know who is the giver and the giver does not know who is the recipient.
וּכְשֶׁאָדָם עוֹשֶׂה צְדָקָה – יַעֲשֶׂה חֶסֶד עִם הַצְּדָקָה. כְּגוֹן שֶׁיִּקְנֶה בְּאוֹתָם הַמָּעוֹת דָּבָר הַצָּרִיךְ לֶעָנִי, שֶׁלֹּא יִצְטָרֵךְ הֶעָנִי לִטְרֹחַ, וְאַף הֶעָשִׁיר יִקְנֵהוּ בְּזוֹל יוֹתֵר מִן הֶעָנִי. וִידַקְדֵּק הֶעָשִׁיר שֶׁיִּתֵּן לוֹ בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁהוּא צָרִיךְ מֵהֶם, וּבָזֶה עוֹשֶׂה עִמּוֹ חֶסֶד. וְעַל זֶה אָמַר הַנָּבִיא (הושע י יב): ״זִרְעוּ לָכֶם לִצְדָקָה, קִצְרוּ לְפִי חֶסֶד״. פֵּרוּשׁ: הַשָּׂכָר הוֹלֵךְ אַחַר הַחֶסֶד.
When a man gives alms and the deed is accompanied by kindness for example, he buys something that the poor man needs in order to save him the trouble, or he finds something the poor man needs at a cheap price, at a time when the poor man has no money with which to buy it (and here we should make a point of giving it to the poor man without delay) — in this way does kindness with him. Concerning this, the Prophet said, "Sow to yourselves according to righteousness, reap according to mercy" (Hos. 10:12).
וְעַתָּה שְׁמַע חֲשִׁיבוּת הַנְּדִיבוּת וּבַעֲלֵי הַצְּדָקָה, דִּכְתִיב (משלי יד לד): ״צְדָקָה תְּרוֹמֵם גּוֹי״. בֹּא וּרְאֵה כַּמָּה גָדוֹל כֹּחָהּ שֶׁל צְדָקָה, שֶׁהִיא נְתוּנָה בִּימִינוֹ שֶׁל הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים מח יא): ״צֶדֶק מָלְאָה יְמִינֶךָ״.
Now, hearken to the importance of generosity and of the men who give freely to the poor, as it is written, "Righteousness will exalt a people" (Prov. 14:34). Come and see, how great is the power of charity, for it is described as being at the right hand of the Holy One, Blessed be He, as it is said, "Thy right hand is full of righteousness" (Ps. 48:11) (Midrash to Prov. 14).
גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ נִשְׁתַּבַּח הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁעָתִיד לְהָבִיא תְּשׁוּעָה לְיִשְׂרָאֵל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ישעיהו סג א): ״אֲנִי מְדַבֵּר בִּצְדָקָה, רַב לְהוֹשִׁיעַ״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁמַּנְחֶלֶת כָּבוֹד וְחַיִּים לְעוֹשֶׂיהָ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי כא כא): ״רוֹדֵף צְדָקָה וָחָסֶד, יִמְצָא חַיִּים צְדָקָה וְכָבוֹד״. וּמִשּׁוּם דְּרֹדֵף צְדָקָה יִמְצָא צְדָקָה?! אֶלָּא הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מַמְצִיא לוֹ מָעוֹת כְּדֵי לַעֲשׂוֹת מֵהֶן צְדָקָה לִבְנֵי אָדָם הַמְּהֻגָּנִים, לַעֲשׂוֹת לָהֶן צְדָקָה כְּדֵי לְקַבֵּל מֵהֶן שָׂכָר. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ עָתִיד הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לִפְדּוֹת אֶת יִשְׂרָאֵל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ישעיהו א כז): ״צִיּוֹן בְּמִשְׁפָּט תִּפָּדֶה, וְשָׁבֶיהָ בִּצְדָקָה״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ נִשְׁתַּבַּח אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (בראשית טו ו): ״וְהֶאֱמִין בַּיְיָ, וַיַּחְשְׁבֶהָ לּוֹ צְדָקָה״; וְאוֹמֵר (שם יח יט): ״כִּי יְדַעְתִּיו, לְמַעַן אֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה אֶת בָּנָיו וְאֶת בֵּיתוֹ אַחֲרָיו, וְשָׁמְרוּ דֶּרֶךְ יְיָ לַעֲשׂוֹת צְדָקָה וּמִשְׁפָּט, לְמַעַן הָבִיא יְיָ עַל אַבְרָהָם אֵת אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר עָלָיו״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ נִשְׁתַּבַּח דָּוִד מֶלֶךְ יִשְׂרָאֵל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (שמואל ב ח טו): ״וַיְהִי דָוִד עֹשֶׂה מִשְׁפָּט וּצְדָקָה לְכָל עַמּוֹ״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ נִשְׁתַּבַּח שְׁלֹמֹה הַמֶּלֶךְ עָלָיו הַשָּׁלוֹם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (מלכים א י ט): ״יְהִי יְיָ אֱלֹהֶיךָ בָּרוּךְ, אֲשֶׁר חָפֵץ בְּךָ לְתִתְּךָ עַל כִּסֵּא יִשְׂרָאֵל, בְּאַהֲבַת יְיָ אֶת יִשְׂרָאֵל לְעֹלָם, וַיְשִׂימְךָ לְמֶלֶךְ לַעֲשׂוֹת מִשְׁפָּט וּצְדָקָה״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁמַּגַּעַת עַד כִּסֵּא הַכָּבוֹד, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים פט טו): ״צֶדֶק וּמִשְׁפָּט מְכוֹן כִּסְאֶךָ״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ נִשְׁתַּבְּחוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים ו כה): ״וּצְדָקָה תִּהְיֶה לָּנוּ, כִּי נִשְׁמֹר לַעֲשׂוֹת...״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁבָּהּ עָתִיד הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לְהִשְׁתַּבֵּחַ בְּיוֹם הַדִּין, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ישעיהו ה טז): ״וַיִּגְבַּהּ יְיָ צְבָאוֹת בַּמִּשְׁפָּט, וְהָאֵל הַקָּדוֹשׁ נִקְדָּשׁ בִּצְדָקָה״. גְּדוֹלָה צְדָקָה, שֶׁהִיא מְלַוָּה לְעוֹשֶׂהָ בִּשְׁעַת פְּטִירָתוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (שם נח ח): ״וְהָלַךְ לְפָנֶיךָ צִדְקֶךָ, כְּבוֹד יְיָ יַאַסְפֶךָ״. גָּדוֹל הַחֶסֶד, שֶׁבּוֹ נִבְנָה הָעוֹלָם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים פט ג): ״עוֹלָם חֶסֶד יִבָּנֶה״. לְכָךְ יִדְבַּק הָאָדָם בְּמִדַּת הַנְּדִיבוּת, שֶׁגּוֹרֶמֶת כָּל הַטּוֹבוֹת הָאֵלֶּה.
Great is charity — it is this quality for which the Holy One, Blessed be He, will be praised when he brings salvation to Israel, as it is said, "I that speak in victory, mighty to save" (Is. 63:1). Great is charity — it brings honor and life to those who practice it, as it is said "He that followeth after righteousness and mercy, findeth life, prosperity and honour" (Prov. 21:21). [And because one pursues righteousness - he will find righteousness?! Rather, the Holy One, Blessed be He, provides him with money in order to do charity for those who are in need, to do charity for them in order to receive reward from them.] Great is charity — with this quality, the Holy One, Blessed be He, will redeem Israel, as it is said, "Zion shall be redeemed with justice and they that return of her with righteousness" (Is. 1:27). Great is charity — with this quality Abraham, our father, was praised, as it is said, "And he trusted in God and He reckoned it to him for righteousness" (Gen. 15:6), and it is said further, "For I have known him, to the end that he may command his children and his household after him, that they may keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice" (Gen. 18:19). Great is charity — with this quality, David, King of Israel, was praised, as it is said, "And David executed justice and righteousness unto all his people" (II Sam. 8:15). Great is charity — with this quality King Solomon was praised, as it is said. "Blessed be the Lord thy God, who delighted in thee, to set thee on the throne of Israel; because the Lord loved Israel for ever, therefore made He thee king, to do justice and righteousness" (I Kings 10:9). Great is charity — it reaches up to the very Throne of Glory, as it is said, "Righteousness and justice are the foundation of Thy throne" (Ps. 89:15). Great is charity — through it Israel was praised, as it is said, "And it shall be righteousness unto us" (Deut. 6:25). Great is charity — with it, the Holy One, Blessed be He, will in future be praised on the Day of Judgment, as it is said, "But the Lord of hosts is exalted through justice, and God the Holy One, is sanctified through righteousness" (Is. 5:16). Great is charity — it accompanies those who practice it at the hour of their departure from the world, as it is said, "And thy righteousness shall go before thee, the glory of the Lord shall be thy reward" (Is. 58:8). Great is kindness — with it the world was built, as it is said, "The world on mercy is built" (Ps. 89:3). Wherefore a man should cleave to the quality of generosity which brings about all these good things (Mekhilta on Ex. 15:13).
וְעוֹד יִהְיֶה נָדִיב בְּמָמוֹנוֹ לִקְנוֹת הַמִּצְווֹת, כְּגוֹן רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל שֶׁקָּנָה אֶתְרוֹג בְּאֶלֶף זוּז (סוכה מא ב). וְיִהְיֶה נָדִיב בְּמָמוֹנוֹ לְהַדֵּר בַּמִּצְווֹת, וְהִדּוּר מִצְוָה עַד שְׁלִישׁ (בבא קמא ט ב).
Moreover one should be generous with his money to purchase good deeds, as Rabban Gamliel did when he bought an etrog for a thousand zuz (Sukkah 41b). And one should be generous with one's money to adorn the commandments of the Torah (Shabbath 133b). In embellishing a commandment one should pay up to a third more (Baba Kamma 9b).
וְיִהְיֶה נָדִיב בְּמָמוֹנוֹ לִכְתֹּב וְלִקְנוֹת סְפָרִים, וּלְהַשְׁאִילָן לְמִי שֶׁאֵין לוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים קיב ג): ״הוֹן וָעֹשֶׁר בְּבֵיתוֹ, וְצִדְקָתוֹ עוֹמֶדֶת לָעַד״ (כתובות נ א). וְיִהְיֶה וַתְּרָן בָּזֶה, שֶׁלֹּא יָחוּשׁ אִם יִתְקַלְקְלוּ הַסְּפָרִים עֲבוּר שֶׁלּוֹמְדִים בָּהֶם. וְעַל כְּלֵי בֵּיתוֹ יִהְיֶה נָדִיב, לְהַשְׁאִיל לִשְׁכֵנָיו וּמְיֻדָּעָיו.
A man should be generous with his money to copy and to purchase books and to lend them to one who has none, as it is said, "Wealth and riches are in his house; and his merit endureth for ever" (Ps. 112:3). And a man should be easygoing and not mind if the books are damaged because of their use (Kethuboth 50a). He should also be generous when it comes to his household utensils, and lend them to his neighbors and his friends.
וְיִהְיֶה נָדִיב לְהַלְווֹת לֶעָנִי אֶת כַּסְפּוֹ, וְאִם יַסְפִּיק בְּיָדוֹ – יַלְוֶה גַּם לָעֲשִׁירִים. וְיִהְיֶה נָדִיב בְּמַשָּׂא וּבְמַתָּן עִם כָּל הָעוֹלָם, וְלֹא יְדַקְדֵּק עִם חֲבֵרוֹ בְּדָבָר מוּעָט. אִם הוּא מוֹדֵד יַיִן אוֹ שֶׁמֶן אוֹ אֵיזֶה דָּבָר שֶׁיִּהְיֶה – לֹא יְצַמְצֵם.
He should be generous in loaning his money to the poor; and if he is able to do so, then he should also loan to the rich when they are in need. He should be generous in his business matters and he should never be petty in small matters. If he is measuring wine or oil, or whatever thing it may be, he ought not to hold it down narrowly to the exact measure.
וְיִהְיֶה נָדִיב בְּגוּפוֹ לִטְרֹחַ עֲבוּר כָּל אָדָם, לִסְבֹּל עֻלָּם וּמַשָּׂאָם, וּלְהִצְטַעֵר בְּצָרָתָם, וּלְהִתְפַּלֵּל בַּעֲדָם, וְלִשְׂמֹחַ בְּשִׂמְחָתָם, לְבַקֵּר חוֹלִים וְלַעֲשׂוֹת חֶסֶד עִם הַמֵּתִים.
He should be generous with his energy, going out of his way for people, bearing their yoke and their burden, feeling pain at their anguish, praying for their sake, rejoicing in their joy, visiting the sick, and doing kindness to the dead.
וּבְיוֹתֵר צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת נָדִיב בְּחָכְמַת תּוֹרָתוֹ (סוכה מט ב), לְלַמֵּד לְכָל אָדָם דַּעַת וּלְהַמְשִׁיךְ אֶת לִבָּם לַשָּׁמַיִם. וְזֶהוּ הַנְּדִיבוּת הַגְּדוֹלָה שֶׁבְּכָל מִינֵי הַנְּדִיבוּת – הַמִּתְנַדֵּב לָאָדָם לַהֲבִיאוֹ לְחַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא.
Especially should he be generous with his knowledge of the Torah, teaching every man knowledge and drawing their hearts towards Heaven. This is the greatest type of generosity of all : he who gives of himself to a person in order to lead him to eternal life in the world to come.
אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁמִּדַּת הַנְּדִיבוּת הִיא טוֹבָה, צָרִיךְ לִזָּהֵר שֶׁלֹּא יְהֵא פַּזְרָן, לְהַשִּׂיג תַּאֲווֹת לִבּוֹ בְּמִינֵי מַאֲכָל וּמִשְׁתֶּה, וְלָתֵת הוֹנוֹ לְזוֹנוֹת, וְלַעֲשׂוֹת בְּגָדִים יְקָרִים, וּלְפַזֵּר בְּמִינֵי תַּחְבּוּלוֹת שֶׁאֵינָן מְבִיאוֹת לְיִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם. וְצָרִיךְ נְדִיב הַלֵּב שֶׁלֹּא לְפַזֵּר לָרִיק, וְשֶׁלֹּא לִרְדֹּף אַחַר תַּאֲווֹת הַמְּבִיאוֹת כָּל רַע. אַךְ יְדַקְדֵּק לִהְיוֹת וַתְּרָן לָעֲנִיִּים הַטּוֹבִים, לְהַלְבִּישָׁם וּלְהַאֲכִילָם מִן הַמֵּיטָב, כְּדִכְתִיב (ויקרא ג טז): ״כָּל חֵלֶב לַיְיָ״. וְיִהְיֶה שְׂכָרוֹ טוּב הַצָּפוּן בַּעֲדוֹ, אֲשֶׁר ״עַיִן לֹא רָאָתָה אֱלֹהִים זוּלָתְךָ, יַעֲשֶׂה לִמְחַכֵּה לוֹ״ (ישעיהו סד ג).
Even though generosity is a good quality, a person should be careful not to be a spendthrift in order to attain the desires of his heart, in all manner of food and drink or to give of his wealth to harlots, or to have expensive garments made, or to scatter his money in all sorts of schemes that do not lead to reverence of Heaven. A man who is generous should not scatter his funds for nothing or pursue desires which can only bring him all sorts of evil. But he should be very careful to be liberal with the deserving poor, to dress them, to feed them with the best, as it is written, "All the fat is the Lord's" (Lev. 3:16). His reward shall be that which is good and treasured, which "Neither hath the eye seen, save God, who worketh for him that waiteth for Him" (Is. 64:3).